But there are others that a woman may or may not be aware of. The obvious ones include those wrapped in packages, candy, flowers and special notes. There are many different kinds of gifts a man can give. In the end, they just want you to feel good about them-and to feel good about themselves as well. Most want to be able to follow through and give you what they want. Men don't want to break their promises to you. They feel the words themselves are a promise, and if the promise is broken, they will suffer as well. When some men say 'I love you,' it means 'I'm not leaving' or 'I'll always be faithful.' This can be very scary for some men. If they don't do it, they'll feel like a heel. Simply by saying these words they feel they are agreeing to be there, to give to her and support her. I'm going to be here to do things for you.' For many men, love is expressed through action, so these words are a promise of what is to follow. Most men must feel very secure in the relationship and in the woman's feelings for him before he'll dare say those words.ДЇor others, saying 'I love you' means, 'I'm offering a commitment. Rejection is enormously painful for most men, and saying 'I love you' can be an invitation to be hurt. I've got to really trust her and know she won't throw my love away in order to actually say the words to her.' In this case, the fear of rejection comes up strongly. 'When I say I love you,' said Steve, 'I feel like I'm taking my life in my hands and giving it to her. For some it feels like a life commitment, for others it is fraught with danger. That's because it means a lot more than simply expressing a feeling. Actually, saying these three words is a huge step for some men.

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